Hi there trying this site out. Ok the big news yes I am married and no he doesnt know and I dont want him finding out so discreet and secret is the highest goal.I am 50 but try and keep myself trim but would describe myself as average i have a mums body after 2 kids.Anyone i connect with will have to * * * * * and chat a while for more own safety. I am looking for ONE guy someone to meet regularly (once or twice a month) and enjoy time together . Non smoker please .